abortion letter from baby to mommy

I feel like Im losing either way; if I get an abortion, Ill most likely regret it, and if I dont, Ill struggle as a single mother. We agonized over what to do and spent a week making our decision which whilst incredibly painful was ultimately the right one for us. but something I think people needed to read. There are different ways to go about this, like: Help us build the most popular collection of contemporary poetry on the internet! My husband and i split up a few months ago but have been seeing eachother on and off during that time. I hope you are healing well and have found happiness in other ways, until one day you and your unborn baby see each other again. If you do it, please remember you are not alone and it does get better And remember (if you believe) God will forgive you. Sometimes I wish I still had my baby. Weve trien for 8 yeats now and decided that if I turned 30 which is Dec of this year and I am not pregnant, we will give up. We chose to end our family after two children. I just had an abortion a couple days ago and I was 7 weeks. I cant be a single baby mama, with two baby daddies. I was accepted into the Montessori teacher training program two days prior. She is 23, theyve been together 6 months and shes not ready for such a huge commitment. Im only 21 and Im not financially free. Davis, a mother of three, is fundraising online to cover the cost of traveling out of state to get an abortion. During that time, I had to learn a lot about our choices were, and I didnt want to scroll past your comment without sharing some of that knowledge. I wanted it to be beautiful and for us both to be so happy but the day I told him his first words were you have to abort it the way his face was was like I ripped his whole life from under him it wasnt a face of being scared to be a dad it was a face that only a person who had a secret would make I cant understand him because we clearly had a lot of sex that was unprotected how could we not feel like this would happen eventually I just dont understand at all he knows that I love him so he started to say things like Im selfish for wanting to bring a child into this world he doesnt want he grew up without a dad and I wouldnt understand, he said if I have this baby it will pull us further apart and he will never be able to look at me he said I was a liar because I have told him Im down for him and thats not being down for him. Thank you so much for sharing this. I have a 5 year old and a 1 year old with my husband but prior to that I got pregnant with a guy who I was on and off hanging out with and I decided to do an abortion because I knew he would not be there for me to support me on my decision but to be honest with you I do regret having to abort it. I miss my baby. I couldnt face a potential miscarriage, still birth or birth defects and my doctors had no guidance for me and what I was dealing with regarding my health. I failed my baby boy and Im still trying to figure out how to be at peace with myself and sometimes Im so scared I never will be. How first and my first. On the way to the apartment he called and asked if I was hungry. He told me to decide between him and the baby and he would leave. Know the Issues. Your words help. 1 A letter to a woman considering abortion Dear Friend, I was thinking of you today. [https://www.coparents.com/sperm-donors/how-to-find-a-free-sperm-donor-online.php]. Published by Family Friend Poems March 2017 with permission of the author. I havent gotten pregnant the last 2 years since being off birth control and we already have two children as it is. I tell you where eats 4 in a table, there is always a place for a fifth one. I am currently 5 months pregnant with my child. I would give anything to hold him. I love this story. We are both unhappy . Like you, i have always wanted to be a mom and it was so hard to make this decision. And Ill honour them both every minute of every day. None of it matters. Your dads hand squeezes mine, although I dont think its purposeful, and he asks again, Whats wrong? I look him dead in the eyes, knowing Im about to change his life forever. Its not being selfish if you think about it deeper. Im not mad at you anymore. My boyfriend told me to abort mine and I dumped him and made that decision on my own. However he didnt. I too feel like I will regret it if I do this, We don't need to live in a big fancy house, Good luck with that husband. Please look into and join the face book group I Regret My Abortion there is a logo of a rainbow. I was worried I would have preeclampsia again, which could put baby and me in danger. Praying for you! I m 21 years old and just find out that I m pragnant for 2-3 weeks. Anti-abortion and abortion-rights activists argue their viewpoints on the steps of the State House in Trenton, N.J., April 30, 1973. Ive worked hard to get here and set myself into a schedule for still working, still being able to play with my daughter and somehow study. I prayed for him but I let fear control my decision. And just as I had for months prior, I did so with ease, telling myself, What another waste of $15. See, my boobs hurt and were swollen; I was tired; I was hungry. I am actually praying that it . I feel alone, abandoned & ashamed that I have to make this decision. I was a late-in-life baby, the fourth child born when my mom was 42 in 1959. Wishing all loving thoughts to you. I know I made the right decision but Im feeling really bad and sad right now. "Please pray for this woman to continue to stand firm in her choice to give life to her unborn baby," the pro-life organization wrote. I was heavily against murder but I know its for the best. Floating in your tummy, feeling snug and warm. Theres no good option. I still wonder what if. Sometimes I still feel her, I pray that shes come back. I felt like death every day sometimes unable to stay out longer than 2 hours outside. Share your story, thoughts, and prayers in words, pictures, or video. It helps to know I am not alone so thank you. This story is so touching and Im thankful to have come across it. I had an abortion when I was an illegal immigrant my boyfriend that time wanted me to get an abortion. She made the choice within a day, and now she is so upset and emotional and traumatised. I'll be able to hear the sound of your voice. He made it clear that he did not want to have another child and truly no matter how bad I felt I wanted my baby, I did not want to do it by myself. I want this baby, but I know financially we wouldnt be able to afford it. I so badly want another baby, but I got pregnant by the wrong man at the wrong time. The relationship was very toxic over all. Participate in the campaign: "All AGAINST ABORTION!" I n 1967, when Governor Ronald Reagan made California the third state in the union to liberalize its abortion laws, his hesitancy about doing so was clear from the start . I PRAY my baby forgives me for being weak And she comes back to me. He said he would be there no matter what, but I still didnt want to force a family on him if thats not what he wanted. If you can handle a child, have it. I want the baby, and he says not yet. That's exactly what I need to do for you. I opted for the surgical procedure because I was told it would be the quickest. Making an impassioned plea to her mother to not abort her, she shares her hopes and fears with the woman who can control whether she lives or dies. Little Thing, I want you to be happy. I understand you completely I found out I was pregnant pretty early ( 2-3 weeks ) decided I was going to go through with the pregnancy after me & my boyfriend relationship changes drastically he started to become emotionally and mentally abuse. Abortions do not occur in this time period, so the phrase is contradictory. When I first found out I initially was a bit upset but over a few days I grew very attached. According to The Mirror, a mother explained how she would be relieved if her third child died in their sleep because she was too afraid to get an abortion when she was pregnant as the pregnancy . . I wish this was easier. Ive often wished we met sooner so we could of had a child together. Whitney. June 1, 2021 2:30 PM EDT. I have no one I can really talk to about my situation. I felt you crying when you went to the doctor. Massachusetts Democrat told to resign after abortion remarks leave parents irate. Im 9 weeks, and he pretends like it does not exist. I go into a patient room for questions and Im told your dad can join me later for the mini-counseling session. Even if i dont want an abortion, i have to do it for my future and my boyfriends future. How I wish I was brave enough to shrugged off the opinion of other people,my friends and family. The baby has been name Baby Amanda Marie, for the name Amanda means "she who ought to be loved." To cheer you up when you're sad. My boyfriend says I should abort it. I had a late term surgical abortion, against my will. I was 36 yrs old, with a 3.5 yrs old girl who was born premature at week 28. I came from foster care and was 19 when I became pregnant. my boyfriend has 3 daughters from 2 previous relationships age 10, 8, & 2. I have three healthy children 21,17 and 13 from a previous marriage. I just hope that I can. We use protection and still Ive ended up pregnant once more. Im 21, and I was 7 weeks pregnant last week but decided to terminate, after much deliberation. Im so sorry. Im very open about discussing this, but its been difficult. He keeps trying to make me have the child and give my child full custody and I feel like he wants to rob me because I cant afford to have a child of my own. It resonates and although Im still very sad, makes me feel more peaceful. Labor would begin, usually within 12 hours, and the baby would be expelled. I still do. Im currently in the exact situation. I have images that its the same as trying to kill one of my current children. I felt empty after too, 10 years later and I still have regret. Three years later, I look back on that day as the most difficult, important, unforgettable, and un-regrettable moment of my life. The World Health Organization (WHO) estimates that 42 million abortions are induced worldwide each year. I prayed on it and as days went on my baby grew inside me but my symptoms from the pregnancy and the disease increased. I am curious as wel. I am nearly 25 now and had an abortion at 17. I had not passed my probation period and I wanted to prove myself, to be as good as I could be. So please mommy, don't let me down. We were in this sad nightmare together, weren't we? Time went on and as I struggled with my decision he eventually came around. Sometimes four days late, sometimes ten days you get the idea. I recently found out I was pregnant after having a late period. Walgreens confirmed on March 2 that it will not distribute abortion pills in numerous statesincluding to some states where abortion is legalafter Republican attorneys general (AG) in 21 states told the company that it risked breaking federal law should it do so, Politico first reported.. Walgreens, the second-largest pharmacy chain in the United States, made the decision after receiving . And, I dont know If I ever would have met my husband of now and not really sure of he would stick around with me having a kid from somebody else but regrets are one of the worst thing that you go though when you make a decision like this. But I dont regret it either. In a letter shared in advance with the Guardian and sent on . This is me right now,I dont know what to do its so hard. I take his hand in mine and say, Everything thats happened the past few weeks doesnt matter anymore. March 8, 2014 at 4:36 pm. I know one day when everything is settled down and fine she/he will come again and Ill be more prepared. Your dad is an alcoholic. American liberals are debating the merits of "after birth abortion." On 29 July 2015, the unreliable web site Conservative Post published an article titled "Liberals Debate . I am 29, and I had a medical abortion at 6 weeks on December 6th of this year. It all means the same thing. I too am going through my second one and I feel absolutely horrible, so I completely understand what you are feeling. And then we came back home. I had an abortion back in 1999. I did an abortion 10 years ago and never disclosed to my them boyfriend who is now my husband. I was 5 weeks pregnant. It was also great that you had someone to give you a choice. I even Bought girl stuff.. in the end I told myself he was right. I just wish I presented her with an easy choice. This is just not exactly what I wanted for her and Im scared to lose my best friend in a sense because Im not quite ready to grow up that fast. I have an ultrasound which tells me you are a five-week-and-two-day-old single embryo. I hope I only delayed meeting my next little one instead of completely losing out on one unique beautiful baby, Thank you for sharing. Im 9 weeks pregnant. Youre still with me, and Im grateful for that too. I am in the middle of mine as I type this. We, unlike many stories, are able to provide and give the child a good life. Now that he had finally accepted it, it officially became reality. I always believed that I will meet my angel one day. I will terminate in 3 days. I dont want to get in trouble I just dont know what to think anymore. I know a lot of people do this to help them grieve for their unborn babies. Top Poems Since I found out I was pregnant my life has been a living hell my husband immediately voiced we couldnt handle this right now, and though I was emotional about it at first, I knew he was right. Made the biggest mistake of my life 4 yrs ago. The article reappeared in 1980, and was turned into a song in 2005. . I was its mother. The saline solution burned the baby's skin and poisoned him or her. I want to be respectful and listen to people who have been through the same as me. They told me to think about what I wanted to do and that theyd support me regardless of my choice. Maybe you're frightened. Heartache and emptiness daily. I am 40 and my husband is not supportive and I feel so alone. A group of doctors and conservative medical groups is suing to overturn the FDA's approval of mifepristone and a federal judge could rule to cut off . Raising her was not easy on my own but he convinced me to move back so he can have his family. Same with me 7 years. He is the reason why I feel so motivated now, and although its not easy I wouldnt trade him for anything in the world. I didnt touch you, but I felt you. Just found out im pregnant as of today 6/18/2019. Thank you for this. I was never able to have a child, she was my first and only chance. I want to be able to call you "Mom," and hear you say I'm yours. There are so many things I am looking forward to, and I can't wait to be held in your arms and taught by the very best mama I can think of! Im struggling with my decision and I almost wish someone could just make it for me. Im so confused. I found your post when I was idly googling if I ever was a mother too and Im sitting here and crying. Its something I think about every day. I got married in December, I just found out that I am pregnant last week, Im running my masters degree and my husband isnt financially stable, feeling really sad and confused about what to do next. I love him I know I do but I also know he does not feel the same way for me. We had to open up the conversation we thought was closed and re-examine our marriage and family. it didnt take him long to move past but its something I struggle with frequently in the form of nightmares and guilt. The dad is eh. Then I sobbed all night and I dont even know where it was coming from and I dont know if they will ever stop. My younger half sister is also pregnant with a girl which I always thought I would have. The Baby Must Be. There was no internet to look up information, and she didn't know about pregnancy . I am turning 23 in two days, on July 24th funny enough. I feel so empty and outright irresponsible. We had to double down on our declaration our family was complete. She was worth fighting for. Its going to be okay. The heavy burden and guilt that I felt each day makes me question myself why I did came to that point, if I was careful enough to not make mistake. I went through every logistic financial, physical, mental to see if I could go through with it. Im almost 6 weeks pregnant and although I want this baby, my husband does not. I want more than anything to be a mom. I know it was the right decision but I regret every moment of it even to this day. She / he would have been 9 years old. The abortionist, he explains, after draining the uterus of the amniotic fluid that was protecting the child, inserts a claw-like instrument into the womb. Our hearts held firm. God has a way of pulling us out of any situation and will guide us and provide strength. This is the worst pain Ive ever felt and the most heartbroken and devastated Ive ever been. The technician asks me if I want pictures, and I say, I do. When she leaves to print them, I repeat the lyric from Gone and I cry more while holding my stomach. Can I ask what you ended up doing? A part of me knows there are logistical & rational reasons why we should not have another & honestly those out number the reasons we should but yet I still want my baby. I know it not quite the same but its just how I feel. Then, my eyes glued to the test as if it were revealing to me the secrets of the universe, I stared. Just my thoughts ?? I have never commented on a public post but I feel I need to do. Ill be 43 when the child would be born. I looked at them and I couldnt believe that that potential was now inside me. Its so hard. Not as alone because feeling my baby every night move around gives me hope. I dont know if you have lived in regret or relief of your abortion before this moment, or what feelings his opinions have risen out of you now- all I know is what you decided to do with your pregnancy, whether that involved him ten years ago or not, was your decision. Im doing my final major project in my fashion degree and want my final collection to be inspired by my experience. To be honest, the abortion probably saved my life. It wasnt the right time and the best way to move forward is by working to build a life in which you can raise a child in the future. And it bothers me that my husbands doesnt realize the pain Im going through. I wasnt ready to quit my job. I already have a 1 yr old but im 5 months. Your situation is mine. We then move to a different room and wait for the doctor. Its been two years since my abortion and I always think about that little heart beat. I wanted to give her grandchildren but that couldnt be my only reason for keeping the baby. A boy or a girl? I wish I could turn back the hands of time. This brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing. But i wanted to say thank-you because your post was something i came across before i went in for my abortion and it brought me to tears. People will yawn when they are bored of you. I know this choice that I am making will be the hardest but I know in the long run, I will be saving my child from being born into a dysfunction environment I at least owe my child that. Every now and then I am haunted. I dont know how I got to this point of being so mistreated and lost. Thank you so much for writing posting this just hope and pray that one day I will get a chance to be a mom again. Listen to your heart, there is no wrong choice. I havent spoken to my parents yet. I dont know how to help her other than being there.

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